TIP: Gage the limit of your EH sub by starting out “small” … “verbal abuse” and working up to things like “public humiliation” over a very long time… increase the intensity of the humiliation very slowly so that he is encouraged to push himself a little further each time. It is ok for him to refuse to complete a task…. you let him know that he will be expected to work towards it and in the meantime, you will maintain his humiliation at a lower level, until he is confident he can do the task required. Ensure that all of his humiliation is both “legal” and “safe” for all parties. It's very easy to come up with an “unsafe/illegal” humiliation, it is much harder and more rewarding to devise something that is both legal, safe and intensely humiliating.
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TIP: Gage the limit of your EH sub by starting out “small” … “verbal abuse” and working up to things like “public humiliation” over a very long time… increase the intensity of the humiliation very slowly so that he is encouraged to push himself a little further each time. It is ok for him to refuse to complete a task…. you let him know that he will be expected to work towards it and in the meantime, you will maintain his humiliation at a lower level, until he is confident he can do the task required. Ensure that all of his humiliation is both “legal” and “safe” for all parties. It's very easy to come up with an “unsafe/illegal” humiliation, it is much harder and more rewarding to devise something that is both legal, safe and intensely humiliating.