The alpha male archetype in nature is rarely ever gay… it tends to be that gay men are “givers” and “nurturers” and alpha males are “takers” and “hunters/warriors”. For that reason gay men often take on the role of “Alpha” in order to “give” the subs what they desire in a way that “emulates” what they desire in a safe way… the act of “giving” is not a true Alpha behavior (sorry boys I know you think your Alpha is real but in most cases he is providing your punishment as an act of kindness). There is nothing wrong with that and is the “safest” way, as a true Alpha male is genuinely not interested in your well-being does not care what you want and may even set out to cause you permanent physical/psychological harm. A real Alpha in nature is “uncaring, unforgiving and often ruthless in taking what they want, they are selfish and often dangerous to be around). That is not to say that “straight men” are all Alpha males, Alphas are a small percentage of straight men, in the same way “100% submissives” are a small percentage of “gay men”. Genetics, hormones and exposure to different life experiences ensure a broad variation within the spectrum of sub/dom, which ensures that as soon as you think you understand the psychology of sub/dom you discover something new that challenges what you already know.
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The alpha male archetype in nature is rarely ever gay… it tends to be that gay men are “givers” and “nurturers” and alpha males are “takers” and “hunters/warriors”. For that reason gay men often take on the role of “Alpha” in order to “give” the subs what they desire in a way that “emulates” what they desire in a safe way… the act of “giving” is not a true Alpha behavior (sorry boys I know you think your Alpha is real but in most cases he is providing your punishment as an act of kindness). There is nothing wrong with that and is the “safest” way, as a true Alpha male is genuinely not interested in your well-being does not care what you want and may even set out to cause you permanent physical/psychological harm. A real Alpha in nature is “uncaring, unforgiving and often ruthless in taking what they want, they are selfish and often dangerous to be around). That is not to say that “straight men” are all Alpha males, Alphas are a small percentage of straight men, in the same way “100% submissives” are a small percentage of “gay men”. Genetics, hormones and exposure to different life experiences ensure a broad variation within the spectrum of sub/dom, which ensures that as soon as you think you understand the psychology of sub/dom you discover something new that challenges what you already know.